Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: A Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion Mass Market Paperback – September 4, 2001

What I thought I knew & heard finally sunk in after reading it and it was very helpful as I finally applied the information to my brain! I learned a lot of things I had no idea of too.

Enjoyed the book have read the whole series

I WISH I HAD THIS BOOK WHEN I GOT MARRIED !!I GUARANTEE YOU WILL LEARN SOMETHING FROM THIS BOOK THAT WILL HELP YOUR MARRIAGE !!!!!

My fiance and I read this book and we both thought it had some very interesting points. It helped us understand more about each other, and even a little bit about ourselves. I have read more of Dr. Gray's books, and it was quite fascinating to see the differences in men and women in the bedroom as well as in daily life. And really, it is absolutely fascinating how our bodies truly are perfect for the other.The section on the different types of panties according to mood is quite amusing. Dr. Gray was giving an example of signals, to make it a little easier for men to know what mood a woman is in without having to guess or be told outright. It may not be true for all women of course, and we all have different ways of doing things, but I thought it amusing. Especially since I know many of the clothes I wear depend on my mood.Dr. Gray devotes quite a generous portion of his book on talking about sex with your partner. Even though it's full of repeated and over repeated sayings, and humor that's not really all that funny, I think a lot of it actually may serve a purpose of breaking the ice and spark questions and conversation between partners. The examples on how to compliment the other, and what not to say, are so cheesy you just have to laugh at it all. But it is simple enough to skip the lists. Dr. Gray goes in no little detail about techniques and anatomy, and there is even a section on restoring passion by writing letters (his example is laughable, but it gets the point across). But he goes a little outside the bedroom too, and explains that even something as simple as getting the door for one's wife, or thanking your husband for helping with the dishes can go a long way.Even though this book has some great information, and I'm sure it'll help my fiance and I when we get married, it definitely has to be read with a healthy amount of salt. I would not go so far as some of the other negative reviews have gone. I do not think Dr. Gray intended to portray women as sexually inactive compared to men. In fact, he clearly states that Women's interest in sex often surprises men. "All women are different" is one of his most often used quotes in the book. He does not box men and women into stereotypes, that is simply how we are made. Women are just as strong as men, just in different ways. And men need Love just as much as women do. That is what Dr. Gray is trying to say. I do not see anywhere that "men want sex and women want love". We just have different ways of getting both of those things, and Dr. Gray helps provide some insight on what those differences are, and how a husband and wife can best help each other feel loved and appreciated not only during sex, but in daily life as well.

It was a very easy book to read, im a slow reader and it went by so fast. Thank you John for all the books and material you put out, God bless you.

I read it fast! Actually in less than 24h.I think this is a must , I hope my husband will read it also. Its great advice. All this years, I never knew where the man's need for sex starts, and what it provides for him is more that release. And as a woman, I didn't know about my own needs. This is funny and easy to read and understand.

I loved every thing about this book and I recommend this book for anyone in a serious intimate relationship to read this book. I gave this book five stars because my boyfriend and I related to most of the the problems that couples go through and John Gray broke it down to us and made it very clear how different we are and also to understand each other. My sex life and romance in my relationship would never be the same after but keep getting better and better !!! Read this bookI've read " Men Are From Mars And Women Are from Venus" by John Gray and Now this book, Mars And Venus In The Bedroom. I thought at first my bf and I didn't need it but then what we let any together made a huge difference. Now we have purchase " What Your Mother Couldn't Tell You And Your Farher Didn't Know" to read next. Thank You John Gray. You are the best ! I've read other books but none like John Gray's books.

there is still a lot of useful effective information here. I had a hard time getting into it because a lot seems formulaic. Also, I believe that true romance comes from the heart. For example, I don't question why I open the car door for a woman,, any woman. It's primarily about courtesy. So, there are two reasons why I open the car door for my partner. It's because I want her to know she's special and I will always go out of my way for her. I don't do it for her appreciation or respect. Any guy who has to ask "why should I open the door for her?" is truly unenlightened. Yet, there are many times in the book where Gray considers the totally unenlightened response to be the typical one. So, that was problematic for me.I also consider my partner to be way more enlightened than many of the examples of how women are supposed to react. A lot of examples seemed to consist of very superficial samples of what romance is.On the other hand, there was a lot of useful and informative discourse on how and why men got to be the way they are, and what the future may hold. I certainly didn't agree with all of it, but it definitely made me think.On the postive side, when I was about 3/4 through, I told my partner what I was reading and asked if we could read it together and discuss it. Of course she agreed, and I am very much looking forward to covering some of what we will undoubtedly consider the more controversial material. You have your type of foreplay, we have ours......

Yes, very good

I read the original Mars and Venus book when I was a late teenager but never knew John Gray had wrote other books. WOW! Are they amazing or what! I have recommended them to umpteen people who have also enjoyed reading this book, and the other one that is on top of my list - the Dating one written by John Gray.Anyway, think this should be required reading for every individual post their teen years! Rather than getting their reln advise from "Influencers".

After 10 years of marriage, this is the book which i needed. Will definetely read more from the series. Thanks.

a complete guide.. just amazing book to understand the diffrence between men and women in the bedroom.. i recommend it

Libro piacevolissimo da leggere in qualsiasi occasione!La capacità dell'autore di esprimere le intime dinamiche di una relazione sono ottime, così come la lettura dell'e-book.