Wanting To Want: What Kills Your Sex Life and How to Keep It Alive

Some good information , but not enough depth. The case studies could have been better explained, instead of the gloss over basics we got. We don't have any idea exactly what it took for them to solve their issues, what exercises they did, or how they felt afterwards. Did it save their relationships for instance?? Very easy book to read, very simple, and can be read in under an hour. Good advice given, a lot of common sense really. Also highlights the lack of sex education in schools as people just wouldn't have a lot of these issues if they were taught how sex works, and how men and women differ, and the how to's for a good relationship. There was a lot of good topics in there, but I feel she could have expanded and really tackled them examined them in great detail, and not just paid them the general lip service they were given.

This book gave be several differn't views that i never thought of. I felt like she knew exactly what i was feeling. I had a lot of lightbulb moments thinning I'm gonna try that exercise.

If you're struggling with low libido, this book is extremely helpful. The author offers concrete things you can do to try and understand what the cause is and even steps you can take to counteract certain issues. It's never going to be a quick fix or a magic pill. I found it helpful and plan to carry on with some of the suggested exercises. Worth the money for sure.

Great book - read it from back to back in a few hours. Very informative, based on real life people's stories and dilemmas. Dr. Madeleine Castellanos shares her expertise in treating patients over a course of many years from a variety of sexual dysfunctions. I definitely felt a major shift of consciousness and excitement about my sexuality as well as a deeper connection to my sexual self after reading this book! Highly recommend.

The author is able to concisely describe the conditions required to allow a women to reclaim sexual desire. It requires being able NOT to try so hard, but to allow it to happen naturally. A great guide for women and couples who are overly stressed and searching for help finding relaxation and sensual pleasure. J Kamp, MD

As someone who educates women about their sexual health through Pure Romance I loved all of the facts and stories included in this book. It is so relatable to so many women! Pretty much anything that Dr. Castellanos writes is a must read!

Perfect explanation changed my view on sexuality and a healthy relationship to sex. Highly recommend this to everyone. Excellent work!

Well written and easy to understand. Dr. Castellanos guides you through what can be a very confusing intertwining of emotions, biology, and thought processes to help you understand and start to deal with whatever may be hampering your intimacy.

Has some interesting ideas that will be helpful. Not quite as useful as I was hoping, but things to work on.

It was alright, nice, short and easy to read. But not as insightful as I was expecting. I would recommend it as a nice first step of taking the time to feel sexual again.