Confident You: An Introvert's Guide to Success in Life and Business Paperback – July 15, 2015

I've read most books by Steve Scott, especially the Habit books, mostly because I love the topic of habits. But this book was different. As an introvert struggling in a world that values online relationships, joining groups, and staying active to maintain popularity, I find myself time and again constantly struggling to keep up with looking like I'm "social". "Confident You" is the book I had to read; as I started to skim the first few pages, it became a necessity. If you are an introvert like I am [and Steve Scott, an introvert? Had no idea] then this is the book you need to read. Forget about being entertained; this book will change the way you feel about YOU.It was such a relief to be told from the very beginning that is okay to be an introvert; and that the aim of the authors is not to change you, but to help us introverts to adapt and function with confidence in a world that praises and rewards extroverts. Scott and Livermore also state that "You can't magically transform into an extrovert since introversion is part of your makeup. Introversion isn't a type of illness you need to be cured from." That's great to know.In reading this book, it is obvious that Steven and Rebecca, in addition to drawing on their own emotions and experience of being introverts, did the deep research to cover the topic in depth. As I was reading this I found myself shaking my head saying, "Yes, that is exactly it." or "They just described how I feel 90% of the time."Here is what I found to be the "Golden" topics in this book:1. Creating a positive first impression2. Making small talk3. Learn to ask others about themselves4. Talking on the phone [a fear most introverts deal with]5. How to build better relationships6. How to avoid being pushed around7. Ways to contribute to working in teams8. How to step out of the background and get noticed9. Getting along with extrovertsThe book is organized in a very clear, easy-to-follow format where the authors describe the challenge faced by introverts, and then they provide the solution to it. The result is a book with very clear steps that defines the problem, and then presents the solution. I believe that all introverts, or people who struggle with insecurity, social problems, or shyness will gain a tremendous amount of help by reading this. You can apply the action steps right away and come away with some great results and lasting change.

An easy read that felt rewarding when finished. Might read it again soon after I finish Quiet.

This book does an excellent job of discussing a very complex issue in terms we all can understand. More important, the authors make it clear at the start that they are not trying to "fix" introverts, because there is nothing to "fix." They point out that there is nothing wrong with being an introvert. For example, many famous people of our time are introverts (like Lady Gaga and Warren Buffet, among others). So, there is actually nothing to "fix."Steve and Rebecca also define an introvert in terms everyone can understand, and then go on to discuss the different types of introverts. They even provide a link to a test the reader can take to determine their own type of introversion. (Highly recommended.)To me, the highlight of this book is the presentation of the most common challenges facing introverts, and the strategies that can be used to successfully rise above the noise of our chaotic extroverted world.If you're an introvert in the business world, this book can certainly help.

I would've liked it more if it was mind blowing, but I came to see that it's strength is in its simplicity. Certainly picked up few things to implement.

The book is a quick and easy read. Basically it is a short summary about the meaning of being an introvert with some suggestions how to overcome of the difficulties that comes with this type of personality. It must be very useful for someone who realized that he/she is an introvert lately. However the book is not giving an in-depth of analysis of introversion and it is quite repetitive. The suggestions for handling problems are sometimes very obvious (e.g. to make a first good impression smile or give a firm handshake) or absurd (e.g. to overcome shyness/ lack of confidence initiate a conversation with 3 to 5 people daily). Honestly I have expected more from this book…

Short, sweet, and to the point! I love the way the authors end their book – pick one idea from this book and turn it into a consistent daily habit. For me, the one idea I'm beginning with is to develop my ability to engage in small talk. As an introvert, I've always dismissed small talk as a waste of time and effort. This great book provides lots of other suggestions for which new habit to develop first, depending on your own particular type of introversion. For me, I'm happily starting with small talk and then will graduate to other challenges.

Rebecca and Scott have written a great basic book for anyone who has struggled with "not fitting in" in this extroverted world. There is strength in the preferred silence of the introvert but there is no excuse for not standing up or speaking up for yourself if circumstances deem it necessary. The challenges and solutions presented make changing old habits that hold you back from success simple. I recommend this book to anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed by the nonstop chaos of extroverts.

Easy read for determining your personality and how it relates to your job. Simple approach for solutions to your personal challenges as an introvert.

This 'book' reads like a big blog post. It's repetitive and unspecific at times. They say multiple times that introverts can't be changed, which is a load of bullcrap. I've personally experienced a change from extrovert to introvert and I've seen and heard of many people who've changed. Changing is difficult, but it's worth it if you choose your change.It's supposed to be a guide to success in life and business but there are barely any business aspects in there and the life aspects are way to general and, as I said, unspecific. It's unactionable and vague.The only people I'd recommend this 'book' to is children in elementory school or people who know absolutely nothing about introversion and extroversion. But even then, you're better off buying any other book on the subject.Don't buy it. Save your money and time, please.

It felt good to feel understood in my introvert challenges. Also a good few tips to be a great introvert! I recommend this book!

At first, please forgive me if I write not quite right. English is not my mother language. I read this book because it was a recommendation from an advisor who visites us at work. Any way, I truly agree I can apply some advises it offers. However, the beginning seems to be only publicity for other papers. The book is short, but it could be shorter because it repeats many statments

The books describes real life points which people can relate.More examples for the solutions would have been great add on.

Good