Gay Dating, your guide to finding love: The essential read for every gay man

I am giving this as a gift next Christmas to someone in my neighbor hood.

There are quite a few similar type books. I love this one because it is simple, thought out, intelligent and practical. Not being that young I think that the advice here is applicable at any age. Good job.

This book covers so many topics, such as body language and basic psychology, unhelpful patterns and why we go for the wrong types, issues regarding masculinity and femininity in gay men, loving yourself, dress-sense, etiquette, how to meet guys in gay bars and clubs, how to avoid time-wasters and more. It provides a really good overall guide for gay men who are having dating problems or who have just started with the whole 'gay dating game'.I would have liked to see the author go into more detail in some of these areas but then, I suppose the book would get too long and it would loose the easy and fun readability factor. I read the whole book in one night and I really enjoyed it. What stood out the most for me was the point that gay men don't have to be confined to looking for a partner in the same old places, ie bars, internet etc; in fact, as Jaye points out, there are no rules. It's up to us at the end of the day!After reading many other gay dating books available today, I would definitely recommend this one as the best. It covers everything that gay men need to know and it's written in a way that is practical and makes sense. I imagine that this will be staying on my book shelf as a reference for years to come.

I'm a gay man who has become increasingly frustrated with being single for a while now. I don't need a partner to make me happy but the complete lack of romantic interest in my life has started to wear, especially when the straight people around me seem to almost effortlessly find love. This book gives some great practical advice for gay guys who are looking to do more than just casually hook up - I highly recommend it (the author has a very funny writing style, which made me laugh on more than one occasion).

Sometimes basic, the information in this book help me to understand some of my behaviors and I love the way a new perspective grows in me. Thanks a lot Jaye.

Good for heterosexual people to read - especially those trying to understand a loved one who might be gay.

It is a good book, I expected more tips on actual dating but this book covers a lot of topics including self acceptance and love. I would have appreciated it more when I was a teenager and most of the things taught I learned the hard way. Overall it’s good, but not what I was looking for.