--- product_id: 83557885 title: "My Secret Garden" price: "KSh6004" currency: KES in_stock: true reviews_count: 12 url: https://www.desertcart.co.ke/products/83557885-my-secret-garden store_origin: KE region: Kenya --- # 4.2/5 star rating from 1,487 reviews Used book in good condition Free shipping on qualifying orders My Secret Garden **Price:** KSh6004 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Summary > 📖 Elevate your intimacy IQ with the ultimate eye-opener! ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** My Secret Garden - **How much does it cost?** KSh6004 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.co.ke](https://www.desertcart.co.ke/products/83557885-my-secret-garden) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Key Features - • **Discreet & Accessible:** Enjoy a gently used copy with free shipping—your gateway to a more open, confident you. - • **Top-Ranked Bestseller:** Join thousands who trust this #1 Sex & Sexuality book to elevate their intimate knowledge. - • **Empathy & Enlightenment:** Gain respect and awe for the complexity of human desire, reshaping your emotional intelligence. - • **Break Free from Jealousy:** Discover how embracing fantasy can enhance relationships and reduce possessiveness. - • **Unlock Hidden Perspectives:** Dive into the rich, diverse world of female fantasies and transform your understanding. ## Overview My Secret Garden is a highly rated, bestselling erotic book that explores the diverse sexual fantasies of women, offering readers profound insights that challenge conventional thinking about desire and relationships. This used copy is in good condition and ships free on qualifying orders, making it an accessible must-read for anyone seeking to deepen emotional and sexual understanding. ## Description My Secret Garden [Friday, Nancy] on desertcart.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. My Secret Garden Review: This book changed the way I think. - I’m a 38 year old heterosexual male who has had more than his fair share of female sexual partners and serious girlfriends and I found this book VERY enlightening. It has changed the way I think about and feel towards women. Before reading this book I had NO IDEA that women had such a rich and varied sexual fantasy experience. It either constantly slipped my thinking faculties, or I reduced them to most likely fantasizing about me or the love making we were engaged in. Now I know better and I actually have gained more respect and awe at such wonderfully diverse and lovely creatures as the human female. This book also helped cure me of my feelings of jealousy and even monogamy! I’ve always been one to wish my partner the best orgasms and the most fulfilling time. How could I even be jealous now thinking that one of the ways to reach that goal is a rich, and varied fantasy life? How could I stress monogamy so much anymore, knowing that healthy sexual fantasies (and therefore a healthy mental and emotional life) may come from a place where multiple people and partners all come together as a team to please? I’m really glad this book was written because, as a man, I now have a better understanding of and sympathy towards what I think are the most beautiful and curious beings on this planet. Review: Fantasies - This is an interesting book. I have always wondered what women actually fantasize about and now I have a better idea. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | ASIN | 1416567011 | | Best Sellers Rank | #1,728 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #2 in Sex & Sexuality #2 in General Sexual Health #21 in Love & Romance (Books) | | Customer Reviews | 4.2 4.2 out of 5 stars (1,490) | | Dimensions | 5.31 x 1.3 x 8.25 inches | | Edition | POCKET BOOKS TRADE PAPERBACK EDITION FEBRUARY 2008 | | ISBN-10 | 9781416567011 | | ISBN-13 | 978-1416567011 | | Item Weight | 14.1 ounces | | Language | English | | Print length | 464 pages | | Publication date | February 5, 2008 | | Publisher | Gallery Books | ## Images ![My Secret Garden - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81YqkNTWoTL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ This book changed the way I think. *by A***M on December 31, 2019* I’m a 38 year old heterosexual male who has had more than his fair share of female sexual partners and serious girlfriends and I found this book VERY enlightening. It has changed the way I think about and feel towards women. Before reading this book I had NO IDEA that women had such a rich and varied sexual fantasy experience. It either constantly slipped my thinking faculties, or I reduced them to most likely fantasizing about me or the love making we were engaged in. Now I know better and I actually have gained more respect and awe at such wonderfully diverse and lovely creatures as the human female. This book also helped cure me of my feelings of jealousy and even monogamy! I’ve always been one to wish my partner the best orgasms and the most fulfilling time. How could I even be jealous now thinking that one of the ways to reach that goal is a rich, and varied fantasy life? How could I stress monogamy so much anymore, knowing that healthy sexual fantasies (and therefore a healthy mental and emotional life) may come from a place where multiple people and partners all come together as a team to please? I’m really glad this book was written because, as a man, I now have a better understanding of and sympathy towards what I think are the most beautiful and curious beings on this planet. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Fantasies *by G***G on August 29, 2025* This is an interesting book. I have always wondered what women actually fantasize about and now I have a better idea. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Loved it BUT, couple problems *by S***K on May 7, 2024* Her book was a refreshing thesis based on an assertable stance from personal experience & observation. I as a male, whom (caveat) 'swings' both ways, was pleasantly surprised at how receptive her thesis evolved/fleshed out & backed by unique if not brave (date context here to when this came out historically) experience via submitted anonymous contributions. Worthy of 'ground breaking' feminist anti-feminist (of the context era), and new feminist sisterhood. Yes, I can say this as anyone male, female, & bi. What threw me was she fairly let down her narrative by taking a couple premises as axioms: they are not. I'll explain. 1. First, rightly so, she states male domination has allowed males to banter sexual acts openly, while at the same time women were oppressed proportionally to suppress similar tendencies. I find that more true than not, but not sure it's that weighted and here's why. She discounts male fantasies because male banter such sexual acts openly with male OR females, albeit with males more. You know, backroom talk. Therefore males openly express whatever, any fantasy, easily & openly due to a perceived societal dominance. Tou know, who could possibly challenge such dominance? NOT TRUE. Males repress many fantasies as not being acceptable in a captured venue. It's a societal common restriction attributed by common denominator of the audience.Example: a male may truthfully or not boast of an act with a FEMALE and adjust said report based on the known audience. Even changing that story to fit an adjusting crowd. BUT will NEVER openly express true inner desires, fantasies, or exploratory thoughts to include deep, dark, disturbing 'rabbit-holes'. A males to suddenly and openly detail BDSM, submission/subordination by a male/female, butt play, bi tendancies, zoophillia, etc would risk austrization. She allows that for ANONYMOUS FEMALES but discounts readily such for ANONYMOUS MALE submissions. There she asserts male have no deep secrets because of generational allowances/practices to so called "freedom of expression". I guarantee males can stray easily into expressions beyond the pale given the anonymous allowance as her book did. How do I know? I've been with many males sexually & exploring acts further than I agree to, tells me there are wells that run deep & dark if not just 'ab'-normal. Her PREMISS further into the book takes such from theorem to axiom.: big mistake if you cannot back up such & she doesn't. Not bad, but don't stray there as it'll discount your thesis. 2. She rightly asserts, bravely as stated, her resistance to the status quo of feminists sisterhood: bravo! Not a blind follower being told how to act or think because a 'cabal' of, in this case feminists, define the movement. Good lord, if we were all that similar then our fantasies would be generic & zero need to be anonymous. However, she then DEFINES inadvertently to discount her own free thinking thesis by defining what true sisterhood is, not in generic guidlines; but in specific bullet points. She, knows, the true answeres. To me, this speaks of supplanting one feminist organization for her own. Not freedom at all. 3. I was, as a male, astounded by the many submissions PRESENTED, of breast/nipple referances: guess I missed that female need! Albeit, I'm a small to medium HEALTHY breast guy whom looks at breasts as just thingies we don'thave. I abhore (my personal problem I guess) extremely large if not pronounced breasts, again personal. The thingies are out of proportion, but the again so are dicks to clirorises. I ESPECIALLY am repelled & my wife, too, to breast enhancement. We have playmates with them but very honestly most women we've seen this way are beautiful & more so if natural even if abnormally large by NATURE. The erzat deformities we found is one of two: lack of self esteem & desire to conform to some misbegotten path OR as we've experience sadly a male's weird desire to pay for them regardless. Honestly, this fatuation with breasts over-enlargement escapes us & presents a bizarre look. See a LOT of such in Scottsdale AZ... it's a requirement like a pool & blond hair. (PS, there is very little non-blond enhanced Barbie presentations....why? Well, perception). but my wife LOVES the breasts of another but still very dislikes experiences with enhanced ones. One exception? Breast reconstruction surgeries to feel more normal. In those cases we make it a CONCERTED effort, sublimely, to pay attention to her breasts as a 'reward'(?) If not to make her feel normalized, again. Again in those cases we are NOT(!) taken aback or repelled but rejoice in the pure sexuality as normal. Perhaps that doest ring true with some & perhaps we are just those types but honestly, it's more than just fine. Just to synopsis the subject, Itme, had NO IDEA how important breasts were to female enlightenment. But on the obverse/defense, we men would love a larger penis & would go there if we could so my apportion is more me. Also, perhaps HER editorial selections fit her PERSONAL desires: I suspect so? Women know so I'm still surprised & confused. Taken what I've submitted, once again from a 'not normal' example of a person ( by the way she is bi too), I submitt my execeptions are to be taken with a grain of salt or not. Not all males are the same. Shoot, given my wife time to adjust her strapon for a male OR female encounter, shows we are a very complex population with VERY mixed baggage of backgrounds. Fantasies are as endless as each human & her book merely opens a door not compiled before, thus, 'groundbreaking' & delightful in thesis attempt, but to me, needing polish. ## Frequently Bought Together - My Secret Garden - Want: Sexual Fantasies by Anonymous - Beyond My Control: Forbidden Fantasies in an Uncensored Age --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.co.ke/products/83557885-my-secret-garden](https://www.desertcart.co.ke/products/83557885-my-secret-garden) --- *Product available on Desertcart Kenya* *Store origin: KE* *Last updated: 2026-05-18*